我感觉大多数人是不主动的，我觉得胆大心细脸皮厚，脱单几率就已经很高了
antiferro (frustrated的三角晶格) 在 ta 的帖子中提到：
在海外读博，一读就是五六年。想脱单但是PhD的压力让我感到机会渺茫（感觉在海外给给脱单也不容易去）。
会不会最后单身六年，然后回国相亲吧
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In my younger and more vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I’ve been turning over in my mind ever since.
“Wherever you feel like criticising anyone," he told me, "just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve had.”
